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How NLP and Hypnosis can assist you to live the life you love!
By the time you finish reading this article, you will have a new understanding of how we form patterns and behaviours and how NLP will assist you to rapidly change those patterns to start getting the results that you desire in all areas of your life.
Have you ever wondered why you do the things you do? Do you wonder why it is that some people seem to easily attain the results they desire in life, whilst others seem to struggle ongoing with the same issues?
These questions and so many more, are questions that I have been curious about for many years, since my teens in fact, of which I am grateful for as it has led me to research and study endless amounts of information about the human mind and spirituality, leading me to do the work that I love doing.
Sometimes I will catch myself doing something a certain way and wonder why do I do it this way? Could I do it differently?
I want to share with you one of my favourite stories that helps to demonstrate just what I mean.
Allow yourself to imagine the scene of a lady in the kitchen preparing a ham to bake when her husband walks in and notices that his wife cutting several centimetres off either end of the ham before placing it into the large spacious pan.
Naturally this sparks curiosity in the man and he asks his wife “Why do you cut off so much ham from either end?”
“I am not sure” replied his wife “That’s how Mum did it, so I guess I have just always done it that way”
The man’s curiosity grew, for many reasons I guess, there was a substantial amount of ham being thrown away each time along with pure curiosity as to why. The very next time that he saw his mother in law he asked her “When you are baking a ham, how do you prepare it?”
His mother in law replied by explaining how she cut several centimetres off either end of the ham before placing it in the pan to bake.
“Why do you do that?” he asked his Mother his curiosity mounting.
By now she was looking at him with a some what perplexed look. “You know I am not really sure, that’s what my mother did so I guess that’s just the way I have always baked a ham”
The man was even more curious now. Surely there must be a good explanation for why you would do that?
So set out to visit his wife’s Grandmother to ask her how she baked a ham and why.
When she replied that she would trim either end of the ham he quickly asked “Why did you do that?”
“Well back in the days when I cooked hams, my tray was never quite big enough to fit the whole ham so I would trim the ham from either end to make it fit into the pan.”
“That makes sense”, he thought, yet both his wife and her mother had pans were large enough to fit the whole ham and they had both continued to use a pattern that they had observed many years before without questioning how they could do things differently.
Are you beginning to see how easily patterns and behaviours are formed?
Using NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming), assists you to update the software of your mind and begin to create new patterns and behaviours. Imagine what it would be like if you could change your patterns and behaviours forever, because you can you know!
The mind is a lot like a computer, it is running many programs simultaneously and these programs, just like your computers programs, operate best when they are updated or upgraded regularly.
Many of these programs, patterns or behaviours that we are running are completely outdated and are no longer serving you in order to attain your goals. To achieve your goal, especially a goal that is a stretch for you will require you to do things differently to how you have ever done things before. Imagine who you will need to grow in order to become that version of yourself achieving that goal. After all, that is why you set goals, so that you can become more than whom you currently are. It gives your life more purpose and meaning when you are working towards a goal, whether it is personal or business orientated.
Very often, due these old programs and patterns that you might be running unconsciously, you will not see all of the opportunities that are available to you.
Do you remember when you were a child if a dog had an operation, afterward the vet would place a laundry bucket that had the base cut out, over the dogs head and attach it to the dogs collar so that the dog was prevented from licking or chewing its wounds.
One of my neighbour’s dogs that had an operation was fitted with one of these buckets which he made great use of at dinner time as he quickly worked out that he could place the whole bucket over his meal and prevent any of the other dogs that he lived with from pinching his food. So in this case it served him well in a couple of ways.
At the same time, this bucket totally blocked his view either side of him, he became oblivious to what was going on around him. It restricted his vision as he was only able to see the view through the opening of the bucket.
Sometimes we can all be a bit like that dog with the bucket over his head, it can sometimes seem that you only have one or two options available to you and you are unaware of the numerous possibilities that really exist, especially whilst trying to solve problems or approaching new opportunities.
What is really going on is the patterns, memories and behaviours have become hardwired into your mind, meaning that you do things automatically or unconsciously without being aware of what you are doing.
I say “Bucket OFF!” it’s time to rewire the neural pathways to create new patterns and behaviours utilising many of these incredible tools that will assist you to open up to the infinite possibilities available to you – in essence, allowing you to open up to your Infinite Potential and build confidence in your intuitive guidance.
By knowing this information you will now have a clearer insight into the benefits of NLP Coaching. In just as few as three sessions you will be noticing rapid change in the way you do things which equals different results.
If you would like more information about NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) along with the many programs that are offered through Before Glow Life Coaching send me your questions through an email to kyla@beforeglow.com.au.
This article was compiled by Kyla Blairs from Before Glow Life & Business Coaching.
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